I don’t usually write about anything other than education topics.
This is because I realize my limitations are great (in far too many areas to list here).
I’m pretty sure I barely have a concept about what is happening within education. I’m also positive I have no concept about anything else.
But occasionnally something bugs me and I’m fascinated to know if it bothers anyone else.
Today it’s Whitney Houston’s death.
I remember when she was a big star. Maybe the biggest.
I remember the albums (casettes), movies (VHS), and the National Anthem at the Super Bowl (sorry Buffalo).
She was rich and famous. And evidently miserable.
Her life became complicated (but whose isn’t).
I’m not judging her, but I do have a question.
As I watch TV and cruise the interweb, it seems like the focus is on how great she was and what a terrific talent has been lost.
I’m sure this is true.
But I’m always amazed how no one ever dies with bad qualities.
We always remember the best in people, but what about everything else? What about the kids? And in the future, her grandkids?
What has her behavior done to them?
It was great she could sing, but she had a more important job.
You see this same type of situation happening far too often in schools.
An adult’s life (for a variety of reasons) has a traumatic effect on their children. You can just see the kids being set up for a more complicated life than any of us can imagine.
And while educators can help at school , we can’t always help them when they’re not in school.
I don’t think Whitney Houston was a bad person. But I do think for all of her talent, her lasting impression on the world will be how her child raises her kids.