Everyone has a tendency to see the world from their own unique perspective.
Democrats see it one way.
Republicans see it another.
It doesn’t make them wrong.
Actually, it makes both sides wrong and absolutely clueless, but that’s another blog (is a Moderate 3rd Party too much to ask for?)
Students see the world differently than teachers.
Young adults have different ideas and views than older ones.
It’s good to have diversity of opinions.
You see it in music. Every generation is drawn towards a new (and usually louder) style.
Every prom since 1900, parents have been convinced the world is about to end because of the inappropriate way teenagers dance (personally, I blame Glenn Miller, Elvis, Axl Rose, and Lady GaGa).
Of course, they’ve all forgotten how disturbed their parents were when they danced (little heathens).
But these differences are good.
They’re what makes the world go round (actually it’s love).
I see the same thing with parents and coaches.
They couldn’t be more opposite in how they view things.
And by things, I mean playing time.
Coaches aren’t perfect (trust me, I was one… in a life far far away).
They may not play the same players we would, but they believe they’re being as fair as possible.
Seldom are they not giving someone a chance because it’s part of a sinister master plan.
Parents see things from a different angle.
Usually the same angle they first viewed during childbirth (which by the way… wasn’t the most pleasant sight for me…).
They are locked in on their own kid, sort of oblivious to everything else (and all the other people’s children).
I came up with this theory (and thousands of other ones) over the course of talking to hundreds of parents.
I’ve yet to meet the mom or dad who is upset because the coach plays their child TOO much.
After all of these conversations about how a coach is ruining everything (i.e. college scholarship), I’ve yet to hear the following even once.
My child shouldn’t be starting. My child shouldn’t get so many__________ (shots, serves, at-bats, carries, receptions, goals, hits, spikes, chances, opportunities, etc.).
I’m still waiting for the parent who requests a coach who yells more, practices less, and pays little or no attention to their kid.
I keep thinking after all of these years, I will eventually run into someone who sees what the coach sees.
But it’s never happened and probably never will, but I guess that’s okay.
The coach shouldn’t see things the same way parents do.
After all, the parents were at the hospital the day their child was born and the coach was probably at practice.
And those are two way different jobs.